Polite Ways to Say No
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Polite Ways to Say No

This ESL lesson plan helps teens and adults practice polite ways to say "no" in social situations, focusing on speaking in a group setting. Through dialogues, conversation practice, and polite phrase exercises, students enhance their ability to decline invitations while maintaining positive relationships. The lesson promotes real-life communication skills, encouraging learners to express themselves respectfully and clearly in various contexts.

Skills

  • Can express beliefs, opinions and agreement and disagreement politely.
Online Interactive
Based on CEFR
Fully Customizable
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Warm-up: saying no to plans

Here is what four different people think of saying no to plans. Who are you most similar to, and why?
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Jessica
I think saying no to plans is totally okay sometimes! Last weekend, I had a ton of work and felt stressed out, so I skipped a party. I told my friends I couldn't go, and they understood. It felt good to put myself first for once.
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Mark
Honestly, I love going out with my friends, but I've learned that it's fine to say no if you need some alone time. A few weeks ago, I didn't feel like going to the movies because I just wanted to chill at home and play video games. When I told my buddies, they were cool with it, and I felt way less pressure.
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Samantha
I really don't know how I feel about this. Sometimes, I want to go out, but other times I need my space. Like, last month I missed a birthday party because I was invited to a concert the same night, but I didn't want to let anyone down. I just can't decide when it's right to say yes or no!
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David
It's awkward when you have to say no to friends! Last year, I had to skip my best friend's graduation party, and it made me feel awful. I wanted to be there so much, but I had family stuff going on. It was so emotional, and I still regret not supporting him that day.
Your answer:
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Saying 'no': a conversation

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Recreate a conversation using your own ideas in the gaps.

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More ways to say 'no' politely

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Your turn!

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